Sip until I feel it

Man what a long week, I am literally exhausted for the first time in a long time, but I like it. I'd much rather have this feeling and use Sunday as a real rest day, then sit around most of the time like I had been doing. The only downside to being up and about all the time is that at night time I don't get that motivated to go out and do anything crazy, I mean I still go out but I'm much less likely to run up to a group of girls or people and grab their attention.

So like I said I have a new job now, and I must admit I like everything about it. From the company format, to my co-workers, to the actual going out and doing sales part of it, a new experience and one that will teach me more than I'll ever really be able to put into words.

So Friday while we were doing our post-day wrap up I get a text from a buddy telling me he has box seats for the Orioles (B-more's baseball team) game. I literally left the office and he was waiting at my house to take me downtown. It was pretty fun though, def the most exciting O's game I've been to and a pretty chill environment with all those people who clearly have too much money. After the game him and I went out, and man do our styles differ. I don't usually role with just one guy unless I know that we are a good 2 man show, but this time I figured why not. The night started off good, we killed 3/4's (the time constraint led us not to finish the whole bottle) of a fifth of Cruzan's spiced rum and headed into Fed Hill. Whenever I'm out alone or with one other person I like to play it slow and do my whole eye contact/stare thing and use that as an in. This guy Alex was not like that, he just wanted to throw his cards on the table and mix it up. Had I had some energy, I probably would have been down for that but like I said it had been a long day so I wasn't really feeling it. Plus almost right after we got out, he was texting an old course of his who "surprisingly" showed up at the same bar we were at, moral of the story I was out solo before I knew it. The last hour or so I had some conversation with a couple of girls, danced a little, and decided to call it a night. I wasn't in the mood for "overworking" on any girl in particular. What I mean by that is finding a girl that I'm attracted to, on a moderate level, and then putting in a lot of work just to get her. Pretty much I exhaust more energy for someone that I don't consider a high priority...sounds weird maybe but its the best way I can explain it. So that was how my Friday came to a close.

Saturday I woke up and went to my buddy Jerry's house for his sister's all day birthday bbq drinking celebration. I was still pretty tired at this point but I just hopped right back on that drinking horse and had a nice buzz going at around 2:30. This nice buzz carried me through 6 (I kept drinking to maintain it) when I had to leave to go home and change and get ready for my little bro's grad party. I wasn't planning on staying at this grad party for too long just because I don't like spending my free time with high school kids, plus my sis and Stann weren't able to make it back up from Atlanta to attend. So I pretty much made a two hour appearance, then went back to Jerry's to pregame for the night. After a couple games of 21-cup, Frank Kerry and I headed downtown.

I'll take a second to address a comment chin made on an older post that I didn't get around to responding to. YES I have been hanging out with Kerry a lot. Pretty much one night of every weekend I've been seeing her, which after this weekend I think I'll have to change a little bit, at least not make her my primary plan for the night. But in regards to your question, DS wants to have sex with her, everytime. I've been good with not allowing myself to get in a situation where that would likely happen, but whenever we do get in that situation, well you know what happens. The reason I say I'm going to change how much I see her is well because I honestly feel like I have to dedicate my night to her when we hang out, which is NOT what I want to do. I mean it going without saying that I can't hang out with her and bring a different girl home, but I can't really talk/flirt/get a number without upsetting her. She doesn't seem to mind so much if I dance with other girls, but knowing the way I usually dance I can't say that I'm completely my self. So I guess my little see what kind of friends we could be experiment is coming to a close, and I've deduced that we should maintain the "group" environment when we hang out. I'm talking about 6+ people kind of groups.

So back to Saturday, I was def still tired heading into the night downtown so we all decided to make it a chill night. It's like saying we want to STAY at Charlies and NOT go to Ricks. So we found a bar which isn't known for dancing, and hung out there. Oddly enough, while there, Frank and I learned how to do the wobble, Frank literally found some random black girls and had them teach him ha, pretty entertaining. If you don't know what it is, most of you probably don't, check it out on youtube:

Ha Ha I had to pick a black girl instructional video just for effect. The last funny moment was that as we left the bar, some OLDER black women complimented Frank on his wobble ha ha, hilarious.

So yeah that was my weekend, it felt good to sleep in till 9 this morning ha. But better than that it felt good to not have something planned and just being able to chill in my basement. I even watched the Germany women's world cup game just because, they are pretty sick by the way.


This week will be my first time I get my own territory at work, and I get to go out solo, pretty excited. Um yeah I don't do much during the week, I'm out of my house from 7-7 pretty much everyday so I usually just come home eat, relax for an hour, shower then go to bed ha.

One last side note, Jerry and his gf have officially broken up, at least for awhile, so now I have a fresh new wing man to take in under my wings. So if you read a lot of future blog posts with stories of Jerry you know why, apparently my first task is to teach him how to enjoy dancing. Should be interesting.


Have a fun Sunday everyone.